Firstly, thankyou for the comments on our last post. Great to hear some different perspectives.
(Tim) Work has been plodding along nicely. Lately I’ve been able to spend a bit less time helping out hands-on up in screen-printing, which has given me some freedom to work on other things (mainly the training programme and some resources for our distributors).
I’ve been starting a little bit of informal training, which is starting to help make things a bit more settled in screen printing. There have also been a few coughs and colds amongst the women lately with it heading into winter – obviously undesirable but a slight silver lining in that it’s made things a bit quieter.
Of course, the Bengali winter is not quite of Dunedin scale – I don’t think we’ve had a day where it hasn’t hit 30 yet. Nonetheless it’s been getting cooler and dropping into the teens most nights, which is nice. I even had two layers on the other day (albeit for about 10 minutes before I realised I was crazy [Sarah: yes that is absolutely crazy, I wish I could live in a bikini]).
We’re starting to gain some insights into the lives of the women too. In the past couple of weeks we’ve heard of a few of the women who have been abused by current and former partners. In one case a woman is living with an abusive husband who’s been confronted several times by some of the guys at Freeset. Nonetheless, she was beaten up again last week. In a culture where divorce would likely see the woman shunned by her own family as well as her husband’s, it’s difficult to see what more can be done. Another woman’s estranged husband recently showed up out of nowhere after I think about 6 years and attacked her – I think on her way home. She was given some extra money to take a longer bus route which avoids the area he lives in. Not an ideal solution, but hopefully it’ll keep her safe in any case.
We recently visited Meena (one of the freeset woman who is wonderful at getting amongst the community to offer the freedom freeset provides to other women standing in line) and her husband Bono. I think they have a fairly typical living arrangement – they live in one room, half taken up by a bed, one cupboard, a sink, with one fan and a light or two. While we were there, a rat was trying to steal Bono’s dinner. Bono had a stroke recently, so is sadly paralysed on one side and unable to get out of bed much. However, Meena takes such good care of him outside work hours, and they have a helper look after him while she is at work. Bono used to be the ‘gate-keeper’ at Freeset. Funny how it came about too – he started hanging around the doorway and was good at keeping anyone out that freeset didn’t want in (used to have connections with the Indian mafia); so after a while, freeset decided he should probably go on the payroll.
Despite these difficult situations, there is a lot of hope that we see each day. The smiles, the jokes passed around, the singing at work.
The festivals just keep coming! You finally think that the drumming will stop, and a new festival has started. Common themes are parading down the roads, making as much noise as possible, carrying idols to the river, putting flowers in your workplace/ home. Last weekend was Sun Puja, so lots of people were prostrating themselves (and often their babies) on the busy main road.
One of the gross things about living here is that as you walk along the pavement, often you will have a few drips of liquid drop on you. This would be fine if you knew it was just water, but judging by the smell of some of the drains here, you realise it probably isn’t. Another annoying thing at the moment is the crazy numbers of little flies that surround you (and sometimes bite) throughout the evening. Tonight, we had at least 2 landing in every dish and glass on the dinner table.
Tim is about to find a guitar, and restring some of the freeset ones, with a view to adding to the singing in the morning, and also hopefully to start up some group guitar lessons, which have not been held for a while now given everyone’s workload. He is very excited.